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  • Entirely escapism, most romantic movies involve felonies lol.

    Stalking is the most popular, harassment, sexual harassment, assault, lack of consent.

    …. But it’s all portrayed as romantic. You want to talk about rape culture? The romance films are peak “rape culture”

    Twilight vampires secretly watching you sleep without your consent? Hawt! The guy refusing to take no for an answer? How devoted! The guy just grabbing you and kissing you out of nowhere? Swooooon! My ex inserting herself into my current relationship to wreck it and get back together with me? It MUST be true love. . I assure you, those things are unpleasant in real life, but I’m really curious as to how people think they’re romantic in movies. I don’t get it.

















  • Get a decent machine and run true as scale.

    All of these things can be installed as helm/k8s “apps” and they almost self configure.

    They update aswell.

    It’s spectacular.

    Then throw drives at it.

    I have one “pool” of storage that’s a raid 10 for things I care about and then a giant zfs “jbod “ that has no backups for just mass storage of things that I don’t really care about.


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    5 months ago

    While this is conclusively stoned as “cpu” issues, in case anyone else finds this thread…

    While your isp can’t read the data over the VPN, they CAN see that you’re using a VPN and intentionally slow down your connection with traffic shaping because you’re putting so much data through the vpn.