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  • FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.worldtoMildly Infuriating@lemmy.worldGoddammit Texas!
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    1 month ago

    Not a Texan, but here in Missouri, you can request your absentee ballot as early as 9/24 this year.

    I requested mine, waited two weeks, and it never arrived. So last week I requested another, and I’m waiting for it. I do think there’s some fuckery afoot with the mail, so I’m probably going to be stuck voting absentee in-person at my local election board.


  • TBH, it was a crucial life line for me at a tough time in my life economically.

    I didn’t have the energy to work a part-time job and just 90 minutes a week translated to an extra $400-$500 bucks a month.

    At its core, it shouldn’t be necessary for people to sell blood and plasma, but Americans vote for for-profit health care and their own impoverishment every two years, so regardless of one’s thoughts on the matter, your very blood is now commoditized at the consent of the voters.






  • FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow to deal with exhaustion?
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    2 months ago

    As a depressive myself, I concur. Sounds like OP is one of us.

    The key is finding coping strategies. I exercise every day and lift weights five days a week. That helps me tremendously. As far as exercise goes, you basically try everything until you figure out what you like and a routine that works for you. If your energy peaks at a particular time of day, that’s when you should plan to exercise. (For me it’s in the morning.)

    I also read a lot of books.

    Thing is, I don’t engage with people much, and that actually helps a lot with my mental health. I have one in-office day a week and that’s enough to fill up my social gauge.



  • Money really do work like that. People won’t get better until they got sufficient economic security to get of base level subsitance thinking.

    This is very true. I’ve been a heavy saver my whole adult life and I have a number I want to hit. If things stay mostly the same for me, I should hit it within the next 10-15 years, and then I’m putting in my two weeks.

    I don’t need to be like one of these people who keeps making money until I die. I just want to hit a number that gives me independence and security and I’m out.



  • I get to stress about my 80 year-old parents driving for Doordash every day, in my car, and I have to trust that they’re going to keep up with the oil changes and new tires and other maintenance.

    Because when that car dies there is no backup plan. No one will employ them at their age and both major parties are content to let them starve if they don’t have some other means of paying for the privilege of surviving in America.